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2017 Year in Review

For several years I have made a resolution to create an intentionally slower life with more space in it. It is a resolution I have never kept. 2017 was no exception. 2017 has been packed so full of experiences that I have coined it as the year I packed 10 years of experiences into 1 year. It was exhausting and exhilarating at the same time, with several bucket list items and astounding personal growth happening.

When I looked back of the year I created a categorized, bulleted list of significant moments and achievements thinking it may be more digestible than writing everything out….the list is several pages long!The following is my attempt to summarize said list into easily digestible chunks.

How did I do on my 2017 goals?

I did not publish any 2017 goals, but I did write down and track them myself. Of the 15 goals I had I accomplished 7 of them, those 7 being the most important and the others being pushed out by life priority changes. Here are the goals I achieved.

Spend more quality time with Alix. Because she is was attending night classes as well as working nights time together was at a premium but we were able to make the most of the time we did have.

Learn better communication methods with Alix. Learning to communicate better with your spouse is a lifelong commitment to improvement. Alix and I have had several amazing breakthroughs in our marriage and communication this year. There is much room for improvement and I believe we have created the start of a solid foundation that will hold us through the future.

Help Alix build a successful business. Alix Lularoe business has come a long way since the beginning of the year. My “help” has mostly been through photographing her modeling outfits, which I am surprisingly good at. I have helped her brainstorm ideas for better customer engagement and setup for big events. Schoolwork has been the limiting factor in business growth. 2018 brings with it many great new growth opportunities.

Read two books per month, one educational and one fun. NAILED IT SO HARD! In January I read 4 books. The most books in one month was 8 in November, with an average of 4 per month. Because I was hitting my goal I picked up a Kindle (used, because I did not know if I would like it. I cannot recommend it enough!) which allowed me to accelerate my reading goal significantly.

Do another trip to Uganda. I joined the September medical trip. It was simply astounding. The clinic was able to serve 2,121 people from the Kampala slums in 4 days. At the orphanage/boarding school we supplied the new girls dorm with hundreds of mattresses, the younger girls with dresses, and the younger kids with two new pairs of shoes.

Become a leadership coach! This was the goal that popped up partway into the year. It excited and transformed my life, and is also the reason the other items on my goal list were deprioritized and bumped off.

Personal Growth

This is THE big one! Personal Growth consumed 2017 for me, with breaks to go sailing.

2016 was a bad year for me, personally and professionally. I tried to write a year in review post but I could not figure out how to do it without spewing massive amounts of negativity across the interwebs. I quite frankly hated my life. I had turned into an incredibly negative and bitter person, completely opposite of who I am.

I could not continue living that way, something had to change. After spending many hours in personal reflection I realized the root of the issue stemmed with who was leading my life. Instead of taking responsibility for my own growth and happiness I had handed it over to my employer. Not good. I had to get out of that rut and started the process by reading through a couple of the classic leadership and communication books. What I learned floored me. I knew to be happy and successful again I needed to take back control of my personal rowth and development. I had on ordered several more books and lectures on leadership and communication and then a conversation with my CEO confirmed to me that I was on the right track.

I will post more about this separately (eventually) but to keep things short, as I started growing I hungered for more and search out where I could get the best training. In my search I bumped into John Maxwell again. John Maxwell has influenced lives of leaders around the globe and is considered to be the world’s #1 expert on leadership and communication. In 2011 John Maxwell created a program to train and certify leadership and communication speakers, teachers, and coaches. I joined. John Maxwell’s Team has created an astounding amount of amazing training material. Several months ago I completed the John Maxwell Team Certification and enrolled in the advanced mentorship.

I have seen spectacular changes in my life, my marriage, and my team at work through implementing lessons in my life. I love love love helping people unlock their potential. I believe it is the calling on my life. Starting as a side project in 2018 I will be providing training and coaching services to companies and individuals. If you or your company are interested in a free training session please get ahold of me on the contact page!

Professional Update

As I mentioned in the personal growth section above, my work at WebDevStudios has really kicked up this year. I have aggressively implemented what I have learned and even started doing some internal training. I would like to see leadership development expanded to encompass the entire company in 2018.

Some quick stats:

  • My team touched 22 projects!!! That is a significant number My team is the best! I am incredibly proud of and honored to serve with them. The next closest team clocked in at 16 projects (I think), with 13 following on their heels.
  • I interview 5.5 people (That I remember, there may have been more! I read through dozens of applications).
  • Hired and trained 4 new team members.
  • Started doing internal leadership development.

Boating Update

Somehow in the midst of everything else I found time for boating activities. November 2016 I acquired part ownership of Billabong, a beautiful Lancer 36. She needed some serious work to be “ship-shape”. The first thing I did was to learn everything I could about diesel motors and pull Billabong’s motor and rebuild it with fellow Shilshole Bay Yacht Club member Harold Baldwin. It was a long, slow, rewarding process that I still have yet to document. 7 months from the time I took ownership the motor was back in the boat and she was ready to leave the slip for (my) first time.

We entered into the Ballard Cup races and I was able to take the existing race crew from a 5-6 place team immediately to a 3rd place team. By the end of the series we were handily in 1st. Not bad for never having piloted a boat in a race before! I credit it entirely to my racing mentor Joe Bozick..

In the freshly rebuild sailboat, Alix and I were able to do a few weekend cruises with the Shilshole Bay Yacht Club. They were a ton of fun and Alix is enjoying sailing much more now too. This summer we used the cruises as a shakedown of the boat and identified several key upgrades for the boat (such as fixing a rudder leak!).

Wrap Up

There is a ton more that I could write about but these cover the major highlights. 2018 will build upon the foundation of things that have happened in 2017 to propel Alix and I further and faster into our future. More to come on that soon!

Camco EVO water filter review

Since moving onto the boat my wife had been complaining about the water taste. It seemed fine to me but I picked up a Camco EVO water filter to see if it would make her happy. It really improved the water quality! Even I noticed.

The Camco EVO water filter is designed as a simple inline water filter, mostly for RVers. Very easy to set up, just drop in the filter, connect a water inlet hose, and connect the outlet hose to the boat. The longest part of the operation was determining where to put the filter.

Immediately the water taste significantly improved. The wife is happy with it and I highly recommend the filter. The manufacturer recommends replacing the filter every 3 months of use and we did. It definitely was working. Check out the following  photo of the nasty brown used filter compared to the clean new filter.

Legalise(ish)….I was not provided this product or asked to review it.

SoFi review for personal and student loans

I am tired of living the typical American life, holding lots of debt and debt payments, and living tight between paychecks. This year I have been attacking my situation and there is light at the end of the tunnel.

To better your financial situation one of the key ideas is to increase your income and/or decrease your liabilities (expenses/bills). I have aggressively trimmed out liabilities, down to just a few bills and my loans, primarily student loans. I do not have much debt, but I do have a lot of little student loans out. Lots of little loans means lots of payments. Multiple payments really add up. I was spending $1,200+ per month combined on all my loans. It hurt.

Enter SoFi. SoFi is a modern financing institution that is absolutely amazing. SoFi can provide mortgages, and student loan refinancing. Their application process is phenomenal. You provide some very basic details about your debt amount and SoFi will give you an instant pre-approval. The pre-approval does not impact your credit score. On the pre-approval page you can play with the numbers, more or less debt, payment terms, interest rates, etc until you reach a payment that you are happy with. Submitting a real application from there is a breeze.

From Start to finish the SoFi process is incredibly open and easy. No other financial institution I have worked with has such a nice process. From start to finish you do everything on their website. Periodically SoFi will call you. I spoke with 7 different people and all were helpful an informed. The loan terms they offer are amazing!

I was able to combine all my outstanding loans into a single payment and cut my monthly payment in half!

If you have several loans I encourage you to check out SoFi and see if they can give you a better rate and single payment. I bet they can.

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Nature’s Head composting toilet review

Nature's Head composting toilet

Update: We have lived with this toilet two years and still love it. In fact the wife does not ever want another water toilet!

Just about a month ago today my wife and I received our brand new Nature’s Head composting toilet and we could not be happier with our choice.  I had looked at them while I was living on the boat before getting married and they looked neat. After getting married and both of us moving onto the boat the existing system just did not cut it. After extensive research we settled on a composting toilet. Of all the composting toilets on the market we chose the Nature’s Head for its looks and simplicity.

Everywhere I looked I saw people praising the composting toilets, in particular the Nature’s Head, but by and far it was simply praise. I wanted the dirty day to day details. What is it like to install? How is the operation? Will my girly-girl wife like it? What is the up keep? What is it like to empty? Does is really have no smell?? I want to use the blog post to answer some of those day to day questions that I (and some of you have) had.


Installing the Nature’s Head composting toilet was a snap. It comes in a large box pre-setup. All you have to do is add the composting material of choice and start using it.

There is a ventilation hookup on this head. It is recommended to hook it up however I have not yet hooked mine up. A survey of other composting toilets shows that most of them do not have the ventilation so I figure it is not critical to have it on till I clear out the old hoses from the prior head install. Should you hook it up? Yes. The ventilation in this head is designed in such a manner as to move air through the compost chamber. This helps to dry out the poop faster which will reduce both the smell and bacteria count quicker. Many sites/reviews will tell you that you need it to get rid of the smell but I can tell you that is not the case. Potentially it will smell less, but as you read on you will note that there was never any unpleasant smell.

Nature's Head vs old marine head

For comparison: Nature’s Head composting toilet on left, standard marine head on the right.

Another major plus of this toilet was its size. Some reviews mention that in a negative light, however it was just about the same size as the old head we had. That definitely made the transition smoother.

Composting material

There are many choices for composting materials available: peat moss, coconut fiber, sawdust, some people even collect dry leaves. The key here is that the material be fairly dry and easy to compost.

The material needs to be dry because the point of the compost box on this head is to dry out the poop. With two people you would think this box would fill up quickly but the magic happens when the solids and liquids separate. The solids (poop) goes into the composting bin and the liquids elsewhere. When poop dries out it takes up very little space. I emptied our box into a regular kitchen trash bag and it filled less than a quarter of the bag.

After looking at the options we chose coconut fiber (or coco coir).  The primary reasons we chose coconut fiber are 1) its compactness. The coconut fiber we ordered comes in a dehydrated and compressed block. This makes storage of the unused part easy. It does mean that I have to break it apart and rehydrate it, but spending 20 minutes on that once every month or two is trivial. 2) The other leading material is peat moss. Peat moss is pretty tricky. You have to find the right style of peat moss otherwise you risk introducing additional toxins and/or bugs to your head. Nasty.

Day to day use

The big question, what is actual day to day use like? Basically put it is pleasant. When you open the lid on the toilet you will notice two holes, one in the front for liquids and one in the rear for solids. If you are not pooping that compartment stays closed. Liquids will all run into the liquids compartment. If you need to poop flip the handle on the side and the composting compartment opens. Poop, wipe, close the compartment. Easy.

There is no water used with the composting toilet. Some stats say that it saves 16,000 gallons per year per person. I do not know how accurate that is but if it is true that is pretty neat. Because you have essentially dirt in the composting compartment when you poop it makes no noise, and there is no backsplash. The first time pooping was interesting, but now I love it. No noise to disturb my wife while she is sleeping!

I mentioned earlier that we went a month before I emptied the composting bin, and I am pretty sure I emptied it early. I will talk about that more in a bit, but what about the liquids? I work from home and my wife works/goes to school in the evenings. That puts us at home most of the day, which means our primary toilet is the Nature’s Head. The Nature’s Head has a separate and removable bottle for urine. This we have to empty every two to three days. Quite honestly emptying the urine is far worse than emptying the composting bin. Urine is smelly! When you get a whiff of sewage (urine and poop mixed) you probably think the smell is the poop but it is definitely not! Urine stinks! I nearly gagged the first time I emptied it. Now I know to hold my breath. Emptying the urine is as easy as unsnapping the latches securing the toilet bowl to the bin and picking up the urine bottle. Go dump it somewhere legit and put it back on. Done. Smelly process maybe, but it only takes a couple minutes to do and your nose has relief.

When pooping the poop falls straight down into the composting bin and the urine diverter turns into a shelf in front of the compost bin. Pretty clever setup. I have not had any problems with it, though my wife has sometimes had issues with urine going into the composting bin or vice-versa. She is a little lady though. Nature’s Head has recommendations on how to sit to alleviate these issues that seem to work ok.

Is it sanitary?

Very! In fact the composting toilet is far more sanitary than the typical marine or household toilet you are familiar with. Why is that you say? Separation of liquids and solids.

When poop and urine combine it creates sewage. Sewage is highly unsafe. With a composting toilet that separates liquids and solids no sewage ever forms. Urine itself is typically sterile. Depending on your own health and what the urine comes into contact with on the outside of your bladder it may introduce other pathogens, but overall it is safe. Poop on the other hand does have naughty bacteria in it. It is postulated that your own poop is not unsafe for you since it came out of whatever is already in your body. The reality of the matter though is that the bacteria in your poop will die about six hours after leaving your body…if it is dry. Thus the reason why separating out the urine is so important. Wet poop will cause the bacteria to growth, it can also promote unpleasant odors.

Are there bugs?

You have probably used an outhouse (Porta Potty) somewhere that had bugs flying around in it. That is gross! With the composting toilet there are no bugs! If you do have bugs in your composting toilet it means something is wrong. Your compost bin may be too moist or perhaps you are using peat moss. Regardless something is off. Nature’s Head has resources on its site that will help guide you through the process of getting rid of bugs if you get any.

When there is too much moisture

The worst thing that can happen in your composting bin is too much moisture. This will cause a smell and eventually lead to sewage. As a newbie to the composting scene you will likely not get the mixture right the first time. This happened to us. I noticed a poop smell and when I popped open the compost bin it looked like clay instead of dirt. Whoops, way too moist in there. This probably happened due to a combination of putting too much water in the coconut fiber initially to hydrate it and getting some urine in the compost bin. Not to worry though, there is an easy fix. Simply add more coconut fiber! I tossed in a few handfuls of still dehydrated coconut fiber and let the moisture in the compost bin rehydrate it. The coconut fiber sucked the excess moisture out of the bin and the next day the levels were back to normal and no more unpleasant smell.

What does it actually smell like?

All over the net you hear people saying the composting toilets do not smell but you are pooping into a box! How can it not smell? What does it actually smell like?

Basically your toilet will have a smell, it will smell like whatever material you use in your composting bin. In our case we use coconut fiber. Coconut fiber has a very earthy smell do it. A couple days ago (nearly a month into using the toilet) my wife walked into the bathroom to #2 and said, “It smells like we are gardening in here”. My wife has a sensitive nose and kept a diffuser running with essential oils nearly all the time with our previous standard marine style head. With the composting toilet we have never needed anything because it really does not smell like sewage. The only smell you should ever get is of the composting material you use.

After urinating it is recommended that you squirt a mixture of water and vinegar into the urine area to help keep the urine smell down and the toilet bowl clean. When I created the mixture the first time I used way too much vinegar. This lead to a pretty strong vinegar smell coming from the bowl right when you opened the lid. Easily fixable by lowering the levels of vinegar in the mix.

As I mentioned before, the smelly part of your leavings is the urine. When emptying the urine bottle it puts out a pretty bad smell. This is the reason for the vinegar mix in the bowl. The way the urine diverter is setup most of that smell does not filter its way back out to your nostrils.


Ah, emptying the Nature’s Head was the part that kept me away from it for so long. With the standard marine head we had a guy who would come and pump out our tank for us. We never had to deal with it. With the composting toilet it is now our responsibility to deal with our own poop and pee. It is really not as bad as it would sound though. Emptying the urine is as easy as pulling the bottle out and dumping it in an appropriate place, be that a regular toilet somewhere (our marina has toilets on land), a pump out station, or other appropriate area. It only takes a couple minutes.

img_4892The “big job” is emptying the composting bin. This is where the poop goes. Even this is pretty easy though. I use regular 13 gallon trash bags from Fred Meyer. These trash bags fit perfectly around the opening for the compost bin. Simply snug up the bag and flip the entire unit upside down (be sure the urine bottle has been removed first!). Because everything in the composting bin should be dry it will fall out pretty well. There may be some left clinging to the walls or the agitator but it will be minimal. It is fine to leave this as it helps promote composting faster in the new material. Emptying the composting bin also only takes a few minutes. It is a much more pleasant job than emptying the urine.

The longest part of the whole emptying procedure is actually rehydrating the coconut fiber. I have to break up the dehydrated coconut fibers and add water to it. It takes 20-30 minutes for this part. I may try to find non-dehydrated coconut fiber next time. It takes more storage space but also helps come emptying time, especially in the limited space on the boat.

Final thoughts

After a month of use and one full emptying cycle I have to highly recommend a composting toilet, in particular the Nature’s Head composting toilet. For casual use such as a boat or cabin you could go half a year or more before needing to empty the compost bin. It saves a ton on water and is simply awesome. Even as a full time user with two people I highly recommend this unit. You will not be disappointed. If you are putting it on a boat make sure that you check vertical clearances as this unit is tall.

The number one recommendation for this toilet has to come from my wife though. She is a girly girl and likes her luxuries. She loves the composting toilet. Over the Thanksgiving holiday we visited my parents and binged on the tv show Tiny House Hunters. It surprised both of us how many of them have standard toilets and holding tank systems. That means they have to be tied to a sewage grid somehow. On the episode that had composting toilets and the buyer was against them my wife actually yelled at the tv about the people being stupid to not want a composting toilet. There is your number one recommendation :).

I was not paid or given anything to write this review, though I would have been happy to have received a free head for it! These are opinions of my wife and myself only.

Krud Kutter is an amazing cleaning tool

I recently cleaned up my new dinghy that was sitting outside in salt water for the summer, as well as a kayak that had sat in fresh water for two years. Needless to say both of them were a mess. Enter Krud Kutter. I had not used Krud Kutter before but a fellow boater recommended it and even brought some over for me to use. The dinghy I had been putting some major elbow grease into and after sprinkling on some Krud Kutter all the gunk came off with ease. I highly recommend this amazing product. As an added bonus it is gentle on the environment!

This is the dinghy before

And this is after Krud Kutter. It should be noted that after using Krud Kutter I used very little pressure to get the remaining junk off the boat.


Here is the kayak that had sat in a fresh water lake for two years.



After Krud Kutter. The boat is pretty dang clean! The white plastic is stained but should whiten up with an application of bleach. Otherwise it is completely clean.


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